In 2013, I was a “trans kid” and N3VLYNNN was a young artist who took to YouTube to criticize transgender ideology. As a “trans” kid back then, I didn’t know that there were any gays or lesbians who opposed transgender ideology. N3VLYNNN didn’t even know that kids were even going trans. So basically, neither of us knew the other (or someone similar) even existed when our different paths in life caused us to arrive at the trans topic over a decade ago.
In this riveting conversation, I chat with N3VLYNNN. Not only is she a brilliant writer and commentator whom you should all follow and support, but she was also an early critic of gender ideology in 2013. I came across her story a year ago while watching the Gender: A Wider Lens podcast where she was interviewed by Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley and I found her brain to be incredibly impressive. So I reached out to her on here, and thankfully, she responded!
We talk about a number of fascinating subjects; from critical race theory in schools, to how our experiences abroad impacted our understandings of ‘gender’, what it’s like for people to look at you and assume you’ll agree with them ideologically, to the term “Latinx” and most crucially— whether transgender ideology is racist.
Nevline has a habit of being a well-spoken heretic, which naturally does not earn her any brownie points with the authoritarian Left. Not even being a Black lesbian saved Nevline from the far-left’s wrath when she proclaimed the simple fact that trans women are not female, online, 12 years ago. Today, she writes on Substack and has some fascinating projects coming up, which we discuss here.
Please read to the end of this post to find the essays discussed in our conversation.
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If you’ve enjoyed this conversation and would like to read N3VLYNNN ‘s impressive work, here are a few of her essays:
How The Trans Movement Is Erasing Black Women From History
Transwomen Are Not Female (12 Years Later):
Nevline’s Feature in the Wall Street Journal:
If you’re a Black woman who has been impacted by gender ideology and would like to submit an essay to N3VLYNNN’s anthology, or know someone who would— you can find that here:
She Holds The Line Print Anthology:
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